1.  Mediation is a voluntary and confidential dispute resolution process where a neutral third party, called a mediator, helps opposing sides communicate and reach a mutually acceptable agreement without going to court. Unlike a judge or an arbitrator, the mediator does not make decisions or force a verdict on the participants. Instead, they act as an impartial guide to facilitate a constructive conversation and help both sides find common ground.

 

How the Mediation Process Works

Opening Statements: The mediator explains the ground rules and confidentiality, and each party shares their perspective of the conflict.

 

Joint Discussion & Information Exchange: Both sides present facts, documents, and concerns while the mediator asks clarifying questions. Private Caucuses: The mediator often meets with each party separately in private rooms to discuss underlying needs and realistic options safely. Negotiation: The mediator carries offers and counteroffers back and forth, helping the parties compromise and eliminate barriers to communication.

 

Settlement: 

If successful, the terms are written into a signed agreement that becomes a legally binding contract. 

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2. East Bay Mediation offers services for divorce, child custody n support, spousal support, real property and other issues in a win-win way. Conflict resolution for straight and LGBTQ. Psychology and family law back background. Free 30-minute consultation!

 

 

3. East Bay Services Mission Statement

Throughout my career, my goal is to serve people in a complete and equitable way. In one or two sessions, we can resolve disagreements in the areas of divorce, child custody, child support, spousal support, real property, elder care and a variety of other issues. We draft a Memorandum of Understanding, which is a legal document. Why did I become a mediator? Throughout my life experience, I have loved helping people solve problems.

 

 

4.  The Mediation Advantage

Mediation is a cooperative, private negotiation process using a neutral third party. Mediation is usually much cheaper, much faster, and keeps control with the person rather than the court.

Mediation involves shared, lower fees.

Mediation lets people make their own choices about custody, support, and other issues.

Mediation often takes one to two sessions.

Mediation sessions are completely confidential.

 

 

5. I would like to share with you my steps of the mediation process.

Feel free to call me with any questions.

Steps of the Mediation Process

• 1. A free 30 Minute Initial Consultation and Agreement to Mediate

• 2. Information Gathering

• 3. Identifying Issues and Priorities

• 4. Defining Goals and Interests

• 5. Exploring Options and Brainstorming

• 6. Drafting the Memorandum of Understanding (MOU)

• 7. Agreement of all parties, signed and notarized

• 8. Review with Counsel if necessary

• 9. Finalize the Agreement

• 10. File the Documents 

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6. Mediation is a process whereby I take my notes from a session and create a Memorandum of Understanding, which is a legal document underlying various issues. It is signed and notarized by my clients. This is the goal for a win - win resolution, my specialty.

 

 

7. I am certified in Family Law Mediation. These grievances may include family, elder care, divorce, non-divorce, domestic partnerships, and LGBTQ issues. These may embody child custody, child support, spousal support, real property and a variety of other conflicts.

 

 

8. One of my specialties is Divorce Mediation. As a mediator I emphasize safe communication and respect for all parties.

We work to identify your needs and your disagreements, and work to resolve them in fair and equitable outcome. If I can be of service, please contact me by phone or through my website.

 

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9.  I have had the privilege to have worked with scores of couples with divorce issues, child custody issues, and gender issues. I help them to create and develop a Memoriam of understanding which will lead to an official filing. Clients can be married or not married. We can also clarify family issues. The average case can be completed in a win-win situation.

 

 

10. I also specialize in working in the LGBTQ community to resolve couple, parental, family, and cross gender issues. All of these are handled in a compassionate and respectful manner.

 

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11. I would like to talk about the emotional aspects of mediation. I know this is a difficult time in your life. These challenges often contain misunderstandings, going in different directions in your life, or deeply seeded roots of conflict. It has elements of fear, anger and confusion. It takes courage to confront them and I can help get you through this period in your life. It may take only 1 -2 sessions to achieve this.